I'm only interested in playing sim style and even then tend to be overly conservative, i.e. gracious/fair/sportsman, than many other 'sim' style players I've played against. To a fault, but hey I'd rather just straight win than feel that I had to pull some exploit or cheat the AI to win, i.e. opponent can't counter it fairly.
Willing to help where I can, but I'm not going to be the opponent to gain you online mastery if you are looking to be ranked high and such.