Originally Posted by
skipwondah33
So you have to be mentally and physically disabled to need help? Thats the only way?
Growing up my Mom and I could have used help, shes neither physically or mentally disabled. Shit was rough growing up and doing without. Instead of taking "help" because she figured there was always someone else out there who needed it more than us...she never took any. You can so pride, stubbornness or whatever but she never did. Simply got a 2nd job AND even still that didn't no way completely cover things that were needed like owning a vehicle, always having food or preventing disconnections of services, etc.
I had friends Mothers that needed and did take help. Majority of times that I've witnessed it, it was in single-parent situations.
but guess neither truly needed it since they weren't disabled in some way.